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Cara Tyrrell, Founder Core4Parenting
1 Toy + My Backseat = Creative Play! conscious parenting creative play independent play paly parenting parenting tips

A couple weeks ago I scooped up my Goddaughter and headed to the local library. 

Last summer they renovated their infant/toddler play space and it is truly AHmazing now! 

We touched everything, emptied and filled buckets, made stories with magnetic & felt walls, and squeezed countless stuffies for...

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The #1 Tool for Toddler Regulation collaborative parenting conscious parenting core4 emotional intelligence emotional regulation family parenting skill development

Meet Sylvie and her collaborative mama and daddy celebrating her 3rd birthday. Last Saturday, was her first “real kid” birthday party.  

 

The kind where you invite allll the kids from daycare, and hope for the best while expecting the worst!

 

Picture this: Lots of  littles  running around (ind...

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Tired of Hearing "I'm Bored"? behavior collaborative parenting creativity emotional awareness parenting

Honestly, I say those words sometimes too. 

Nope - not the swear words. 🤣I'm not a cusser but be sure to listen to this short podcast episode to hear what I DO say! 

I'll hear myself take a *long, deep sigh* and say, outloud, 🗣️"I'm so bored". 

But the truth is, I'm feeling a lot of things in tha...

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Creativity and Kids conscious parenting creativity family foundational skills parenting skills

“It's not very beautiful is it?” We were painting little plaster Halloween creatures and this little four year old’s was multi-colored and multi-layered, hues blending to create new and different shades. 

 

When I hesitated, he put down the paintbrush held it up to show me and said again, “Nanny C...

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Worried You Toddler's Not Empathetic? character emotional awareness empathy foundational skills parenting skill development

"You can each pick one thing" I said to each of my girls as we entered the store. 

With that statement I released any attachment to what that item was.

Whether it was healthy or junk, a tube of bubbles or colored, lined index cards. (Even as a tiny Caroline already had a thing for school supplies!...

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Mindset Vs Perspective character foundational skills growth mindset parenting perspective raising children

“Mom, what do you think I should do?” 

 

My daughter Caroline just started her first semester at Temple University, Japan. Her night is my day, and vice versa, so I often wake up to messages, pictures, or voice memos from her.  It’s a great way to start the day after meditation & gratitudes done, ...

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Does Conscious Parenting Really Work? collaborative parenting conscious parenting core 4 foundational skills growth mindset parenting

Parents & Early Educators ask me a short list of questions, on repeat. And this always makes the top three!

 

My job is to be honest with you. So here it is.

 

Consciousness is only HALF of the formula for raising and teaching well rounded, whole kids.

 

So why is conscious discipline so popul...

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The #1 Thing You Need to Parent In Public behavior conscious parenting flexible thinking medical issues parenting raising children toddler mom

I duct-taped my 3 year old’s car seat buckle.

 

Yep, you read that right. 

 

The year was 2006  and we were on vacation in Cape Cod when Claire’s explosive behaviors began. It truly felt like an out of the blue, 180 degree change in our child. The crying, body flailing, and refusal to wear certa...

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Keeping Kids Safe When They Have No Stranger Danger back to school parenting safety scripts skills

I looked at my toddler, smiled and said “It’s my job to keep you…” 

 

 “SAFE” she yelled with an ear to ear smile on her face.

 

From the moment my kids were born there was an inner shift. All of a sudden my only job was to keep them safe, loved and protected.

 

And they knew it. 

 

I’d use ...

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Back to School! back to school conscious parenting parenting

My daughter clung to my leg like it was her life force. I took one awkward step, knowing I had to go, that by staying I was only making it harder for both of us, as the teacher pulled my three year old off my body. 

 

She was bawling. And by the time I got to the car, so was I. 

 

15 years ago, ...

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Stop Apologizing for Your Child's Behavior. Do this Instead behavior conscious parenting foundational skills parenting

Toddlers misbehave: at home, in public, at school.

 

They are small humans exploring the world and testing to see who will hold boundaries with love, consistency and compassion, regardless of where they are.

 

As parents, the urge to apologize for their behaviors is strong. But when you consider...

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How to Avoid Raising Overcommitted Kids conscious parenting family parenting raising children

I did not have sporty kids,  And I'm not going to lie, I was relieved.  I watched my sister and brother in law, who have three VERY sporty kids, lose their heads juggling the number of practices, games, and tournaments… per sport, per kid, every season of the year. 

 

They were stressed. They had ...

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