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Cara Tyrrell, Founder Core4Parenting
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A couple weeks ago I scooped up my Goddaughter and headed to the local library. 

Last summer they renovated their infant/toddler play space and it is truly AHmazing now! 

We touched everything, emptied and filled buckets, made stories with magnetic & felt walls, and squeezed countless stuffies for...

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The #1 Tool for Toddler Regulation collaborative parenting conscious parenting core4 emotional intelligence emotional regulation family parenting skill development

Meet Sylvie and her collaborative mama and daddy celebrating her 3rd birthday. Last Saturday, was her first “real kid” birthday party.  

 

The kind where you invite allll the kids from daycare, and hope for the best while expecting the worst!

 

Picture this: Lots of  littles  running around (ind...

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Christmas 2011 - Also known as the year we hit the reset button on the holiday.

Christmas is the season of giving and receiving between friends, families, and coworkers, but from the perspective of a little one, it’s all about the ‘getting’.  

 

The way they give back to us, through their smiles,...

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How to Savor Moments collaborative parenting conscious parenting mindset motherhood parenthood perspective self awareness

When my kids were one and three, the daily struggles were REAL and honestly, I thought it would never end.  

 

“Two and four have got to be better, right?” My daily prayer, mantra style. 

 

When I turned to my village for support they said loving, yet unhelpful, things.  

 

Don't blink and you...

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“It's not very beautiful is it?” We were painting little plaster Halloween creatures and this little four year old’s was multi-colored and multi-layered, hues blending to create new and different shades. 

 

When I hesitated, he put down the paintbrush held it up to show me and said again, “Nanny C...

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It was a quiet summer Saturday morning.  I was up early, a cup of hot coffee in my hand while momming mantras ran through my mind: I will stay calm today. I WILL stay calm today. I can do this. 

 

The day before with my 4 year old had been hard. The day before that, even harder. Honestly, it had j...

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Does Conscious Parenting Really Work? collaborative parenting conscious parenting core 4 foundational skills growth mindset parenting

Parents & Early Educators ask me a short list of questions, on repeat. And this always makes the top three!

 

My job is to be honest with you. So here it is.

 

Consciousness is only HALF of the formula for raising and teaching well rounded, whole kids.

 

So why is conscious discipline so popul...

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The #1 Thing You Need to Parent In Public behavior conscious parenting flexible thinking medical issues parenting raising children toddler mom

I duct-taped my 3 year old’s car seat buckle.

 

Yep, you read that right. 

 

The year was 2006  and we were on vacation in Cape Cod when Claire’s explosive behaviors began. It truly felt like an out of the blue, 180 degree change in our child. The crying, body flailing, and refusal to wear certa...

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"I don't know but I'll figure it out."

This is what my then 18 year old daughter Caroline told me after arriving in Japan only to find that the Aupair job she had lined up had fallen through.

😰I world away I was in a bit of mama panic and did what I counsel parents never to do 🤷🏻‍♀️ peppered her w...

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Back to School! back to school conscious parenting parenting

My daughter clung to my leg like it was her life force. I took one awkward step, knowing I had to go, that by staying I was only making it harder for both of us, as the teacher pulled my three year old off my body. 

 

She was bawling. And by the time I got to the car, so was I. 

 

15 years ago, ...

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Stop Apologizing for Your Child's Behavior. Do this Instead behavior conscious parenting foundational skills parenting

Toddlers misbehave: at home, in public, at school.

 

They are small humans exploring the world and testing to see who will hold boundaries with love, consistency and compassion, regardless of where they are.

 

As parents, the urge to apologize for their behaviors is strong. But when you consider...

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How to Avoid Raising Overcommitted Kids conscious parenting family parenting raising children

I did not have sporty kids,  And I'm not going to lie, I was relieved.  I watched my sister and brother in law, who have three VERY sporty kids, lose their heads juggling the number of practices, games, and tournaments… per sport, per kid, every season of the year. 

 

They were stressed. They had ...

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